There is a passage of scripture that says, him to know to do good and do it not to him it is sin. I want to start with knowing to do good. Common sense tells each of us it is wrong to do harm to our brother and sister. The passage that says not to offend one of his little ones means just what it says. It is not anyone place to pass judgement on another the best advice I can give you about this is you will have more than enough to do to take care of keeping yourself in check. There is no time to be in anyone else’s business trying to put others in check. I have been reading in the Bible about meddling into peoples business. Why in the world would anyone feel that they were qualified to judge anyone? I would have to say who gave anyone this authority to be doing so. If anything will be a hindrance to the body of Christ it would be meddling into other people lives. For one thing no one really knows where each of us has been nor came from. One never knows how far that person had to come to even start their walk with God. My friend these things ought not to be. If there is a need in ones live for them to come higher in God then God will do that work. Let them a lone and grow in God. Each of us will be held accountable for the people we have hurt or hindered their walk with God. So why would one even try and take such a task. Makes me really wonder what spirit these type people have. The Bible tells us God is not the author of confusion and one thing for sure causing anyone more problems than they are already having to deal with each day is causing confusion to that person. So then if it is not God what else could that be? Pretty plain to me. That spirit is not of God. My friend if you have found yourself having to deal with someone that is meddling in other peoples business the best advice I can give you is stay away from such. You would be better off to tell them you are not going to be apart of such and to stay away from you. After all your soul and others are at risk. When each of us stand before the Lord we will be held accountable for the souls that we may have hindered so do you want that on your hands? Don’t be a meddler going from house to house telling gossip, get off the phone, this is destroying the church. If you have so much time on your hands spend it in prayer you and everyone else would be so much better off doing so. Mind your own business.

Sonja 10/8/04